These aren’t just for new relationships, older ones can apply them to realign themselves. Per adventure they somehow find themselves floundering, these ideas can support their re-grounding.
1, Never Change your routine to accommodate a relationship except it is absolutely necessary. The tendency is to want to one’s routine but it creates problems. If you jog in the morning, please by all means continue with that routine. If you hand out with friends on a particular day, do stick with that.We tend to alter things without having to or without being asked and then resent them for it.If the need arises then a conversation should be had; with both parties aware of commitment and expectations.
2, Keep your associations. Many people let go of family and friends because they started dating. Do not disconnect from people in your lives especially if they were healthy associations. If they do not represent a danger to your relationship then hold on to them.If people have proven they are good for you single, the odds are they’ll still be good for you “not single”.If the relationship is blossoming and they are representing themselves in an unwholesome way, then by all means, detach.
3, Retain your personal style. How we dress is basically a representation of our personality and personal values. No one else should determine how we dress but ourselves. We are representing ourselves after all.Do not change how you dress to please someone else, or you might be presenting a front to the world that isn’t you at all.This could lead to a lose of a sense of of identity. When we look into the mirror what we see should reflect who we have defined ourselves to be. But when what we see and what we think we are, aren’t aligned; there’s a conflict. No one should have to deal with that; not even for a relationship.Someone who claims to love you should accept and celebrate you as you are.
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